Decaffeinated Tea and Tempered Sympathy

A college boy becomes suicidal after being hazed for his femininity in 1956's Tea and Sympathy. Vincente Minnelli directs the film, based on a stage play, as a decadent melodrama with lush, gorgeous colour cinematography by John Alton.

Deborah Kerr stars as Laura, wife of an influential coach who also runs the boarding house where Tom lives. Tom is the boy bullied for the way he walks, the fact that he knows how to sew, and the fact that he's seen talking to women without intending to date any of them. Tom's played by John Kerr who is supposedly not related to Deborah Kerr but, I have to say, the two kind of look alike.

Dig those giant fish cake moulds. The cake moulds all seem to be the same colour as Deborah Kerr's hair. The film has a fairly consistent copper and blue palette. I wonder how much of it was intentional and how much was a limitation of Metrocolor.

The story's in line with a lot of other movies from the '50s about the breakdown of traditional family structure centred on a maladjusted boy like Rebel without a Cause and The Wild One. Like a lot of those movies, it suffers from characters delivering social commentary at each other as exposition but some of it is pretty insightful, as when Laura argues to Al (Darryl Hickman) that virtually anyone can be smeared by gossip for the most trivial, arbitrary physical or personality trait.

This leads to a slightly amusing scene of Al trying to help Tom adopt a more manly stride only to discover Al himself doesn't know exactly what's not manly about Tom's stride, that it was a phantom impression entirely conjured by the bigoted social group. The original stage play directly referenced homosexuality but the film was not permitted to, despite coming a few years after the Hays Code was judged unconstitutional. It's hardly a surprise the studio was afraid of tackling the issue directly in the '50s.

I don't know exactly what the differences were between play and film but I suspect a character other than Tom turns out to be gay, which would really turn the story on its head.

Occasionally, Minnelli's desire to hit the high emotional notes leads only to awkwardness but for the most part the film's fairly satisfying. Deborah Kerr always gives a great performance though she may be a little over the top in some instances here.

Tea and Sympathy is available on The Criterion Channel until the end of the month.